For a long time, leadership advice for women sounded like this:
Move faster. Speak up sooner. Lean in harder. Claim your seat at the table.
The underlying message was always about acceleration. If women could just move quickly enough, confidently enough, decisively enough, the path upward would open.
I was drawn to healthcare because of a very personal experience growing up. I suffered from chronic sinusitis, and by high school it was significantly affecting my daily life. I remember feeling constantly unwell and frustrated. I couldn’t sleep because my nose was blocked most of the time, and I often had difficulty breathing. It may sound like a small thing, but when you live with it every day, it affects your concentration, your energy, and your overall sense of well-being.
When I was finally referred to an ENT specialist, the treatment he prescribed brought remarkable relief. For the first time in a long while, I could breathe comfortably and sleep through the night. That experience stayed with me. It made me realize how transformative healthcare can be — not just in treating disease, but in restoring quality of life.
For most of our careers, leadership credibility was built in familiar ways.
It included of experience, judgment, relationships, the ability to read a room and the confidence to make a call when the answer wasn’t obvious. Those things sill matter deeply.
But quietly, another layer is being added to how leadership credibility is perceived.
It’s not found in job descriptions or leadership frameworks or in performance reviews…at least not yet.
For decades, leadership success was framed as a straight line. It was one role, one organization and one ladder to climb.
Stability was equated with loyalty. Focus was equated with staying in your lane. Leadership identity was often tied to a single title, a single institution and a single path forward.
But that model is quietly loosening.
For a long time, women in leadership were positioned as the stewards of culture. They were the ones expected to hold the emotional center of teams. They had to smooth the edges, manage the people dynamics and bring empathy into rooms here it often felt in short supply.
That work matters. It always has…culture shapes everything. But something is changing.
More women are stepping into leadership not just as culture carriers, but as decision architects. They are shaping how decisions get made, who is in the room when they are made, what information is considered legitimate and how authority actually flows through an organization. This is a quieter form of power but it is far more consequential.
For a long time, leadership was measured by movement…who was visible, or decisive or seemed tireless or who could carry more.
Leadership success was often equated with momentum, speed and output. The ability to keep things moving forward no matter the cost. And for many women in leadership, that meant learning how to operate inside a system that quietly rewarded exhaustion and performance over sustainability and discernment.
Leadership training is everywhere right now.
Organizations are asking for it. Teams are requesting it. Leaders at every level are saying they want it, sometimes urgently. And yet, despite all this demand, many people walk away from leadership training feeling unchanged, unheard or quietly frustrated. And it’s not because leadership development doesn’t matter. It’s because too often, it’s misaligned with reality.
In leadership development circles there’s a persistent myth that mentoring is something you do if you have extra time…a nice add-on once you’ve checked your main boxes for the day. But recent reporting and conversations are reframing mentoring in a way that matters: not as an afterthought, not as extracurricular, not as “nice”…but as a core leadership responsibility and a career multiplier.
Known for her strategic approach and her ability to connect patients with the right level of care. She is recognized for her commitment to ensuring that every patient receives access to the resources they need. Her work contributes directly to the organization’s growth initiatives and its mission to deliver industry-leading neurorehabilitation services.
Beyond her professional achievements, Amanda is valued for her relationshipbuilding style, her ability to inspire teams, and her passion for advancing highquality patient outcomes across the continuum of care.
For a long time, visibility was treated as the currency of leadership. If you wanted to advance, you needed to be seen. If you wanted influence, you needed to speak more, post more, show up everywhere. Visibility became synonymous with impact.
And for a while, that made sense.
Women worked hard to be noticed in systems that often overlooked them. They learned how to raise their hands, step into the spotlight, and make their presence undeniable. Visibility opened doors that had long been closed.
For years, leadership growth was defined by expansion. There was more responsibility, more visibility, more opportunity and more yeses. Women were encouraged to take it all on…not because it was sustainable, but because access itself felt fragile. If the door was open, you walked through it. If the invitation came, you accepted. But…something has shifted.
As 2026 unfolds, more women in leadership are no longer asking what else they should take on. They’re asking something far more powerful… “What actually deserves my leadership now?” This isn’t burnout speaking. It’s discernment.
You may know me as the woman behind Selling In A Skirt, as a keynote speaker, an executive coach, or maybe you’ve sat across from me in a mastermind…or even shared a tea on Zoom.But as we enter this new year, I want to introduce myself with more than just a title. Who I Really […]