5 Myths About Coaching That Keep Women Stuck (And What’s Actually True)

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If you’ve ever thought, “I should be able to figure this out myself” of “Coaching is for people who are struggling”…you’re not alone.

I’ve coached hundreds of brilliant women, and I see the same thing over and over: they don’t hire a coach because they aren’t capable…they hire a coach because they are.

Leadership Isn’t About Saying Yes to Everything…It’s About Saying Yes to What Matters

Four colleagues stand around a desk in an office. Demonstrating leadership, two women in the center give each other a high five while the others observe and smile.

“I said yes even when I wanted to say no. I skipped meals, worked through exhaustion and smiled while doing it.”

Sound familiar?

If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no…you’re not alone.

One of the most overlooked leadership skills…are boundaries.

For women in leadership, boundaries can feel like a double-edged sword. Set them, and you risk being seen as inflexible. Don’t set them, and suddenly your calendar, your energy and your well-being belong to everyone but you.

Develop Others As You Develop Yourself

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True leadership isn’t about collecting wins. It’s about creating impact…for yourself and for others. The world doesn’t need more titles or accolades. It needs more women who lift as they climb.

You don’t have to mentor everyone. But you can become the leader you once needed. And in doing so, you create a ripple effect that outlives your job title, your business card or your current role.

What Skill Set Have You Been Downplaying?

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It happens quietly. Maybe you’ve always been great at simplifying chaos into clear action…but you call it “just being organized.” Maybe people always come to you for advice…but you brush it off as “being a good listener.” Maybe you lead with empathy, but you label it “just being nice.”

Authentic Leadership-Lead Boldly Without Losing Yourself

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Leadership today isn’t about being the loudest in the room or having all the answers. It’s about being clear, grounded and real. It’s about knowing who you are, what you stand for and how you want to lead…especially when everyone else seems to be playing a different game.

Being Intentional

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At the beginning of each year, we are full of determination and ambition, and we carve out new resolutions that will stick…this year, not like last year.  And yet, for some reason, we find ourselves back in that same boat and before we know it, we are doing the same thing yet again.  Kind of reminds us of “Groundhog Day” or being part of Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.

How To Get More Qualified Sales…It’s All About The Process

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Let’s talk about the sales process.  No matter the product, the industry, the length of time…the process is generally the process.  Where it begins and ends might be a little different for someone but again…the process is generally the process. I know many believe you are not in sales or don’t want to be considered […]

Feeding Your Mind

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A few months ago, I was in the airport and, as I always do, I people watch. Sometimes I simply watch and sometimes I engage in conversation. This particular day, our flight was delayed, and I was talking with a woman about where we were both going and was it business or pleasure. She was […]

Stop Being The Best-Kept Secret

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It’s so funny when you think about how you show up in your business. We talk about being authentic and generous and courageous and passionate. But what does that look like? How do people get to participate in what you have to share? More importantly are you showing up at all or are you hoping […]

Enough Is Enough!

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I would bet many of you have watch or were addicted to the Seinfeld show.  It was truly based on nothing and yet it was so relevant.  One of my favorite things that the cast did was say one word in an assortment of ways.  For instance seriously. It could be seriously? As in a […]

Words Matter

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Whether you are in elementary school, in business or in your real-life setting, you need to be aware of the words you use because words can be powerful and that is what we will talk about today…how words matter. “Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. Words have energy and power with […]

Finding Time For Yourself

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Finding your own time is not being selfish, and it should not have any cause for guilt. With the crazy, busy world we live in, finding time for yourself can be a huge challenge. As women we do experience guilt when we manage to find a few moments of time for ourselves and sometimes, we […]

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